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Originally Posted by dgoody1234  The fact of the matter is that I push my wife because I have the fantasies and I use alcohol to loosen her up and have her say what I want -- obviously that is not totally healthy, or fair.
I don't want to ever share my wife with another man and am completely selfish, and will admit that I just want the freedom to do what I want to do -- I guess I am getting that itch for other women and want the permission to be with them.
I have a very addicting type personality and tend to use alcohol frequently for various reasons. |
This is deeply, deeply scary. Please get yourself into some therapy before you destroy your life or hurt your wife. You have an addictive personality, you use alcohol to manipulate your wife and you are admittedly "completely selfish"? Sounds like you are just a few steps away from being abusive.
Oh, and this whole "I want to sleep with other women but I'll never 'share' my wife"? Wow, I didn't realize your wife was your property. Here I thought in modern day America, spouses were considered people. Please, for the love of god, don't cheat on your wife because that would just mean making some other woman miserable as well. Disgusting.