Re: is my co-worker putting me on?
Yes, your coworker was putting you on. If she really wanted to return your calls or go with you to the club, she would have. You work with her, so it's probably best to leave things go with her anyway.
Now about the girlfriend. If you're serious about joining the lifestyle with her, you should really TALK to her and share this board with her. Let her learn more about the lifestyle from the kinds of folks ya'll are likely to meet at the club. This is about the best way to do that without actually going to the club in person.
That said, she's newly separated, which is cause for some concern. She may not be ready to take this leap. Swinging only "works" for a couple when they have a strong relationship.
Best of luck to ya'll,
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