I picture it as erotic. I am very sexually adventurous with my husband, but I never really get into porn. I have watched quite a few and find some entertaining but none of them seem like real people. Hehe, try some of the stuff in those movies and you will probably end up in traction for a month
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I personally find that real couples having real sex, no matter if its mild or wild, is a very sensual thing for me. I think that to be there while its happening, watching the intimate connection of another couple, and doing the same with the person I connect with would be much more arousing