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screaminggood · 03-10-2009, 03:02 PM

Here's a quandry for the OP: my advice is the exact opposite of the previous posters. My husband's preference is that my extra men be people that we have no history with, and outside of the sex, will have no future with....his concern is drama, and since it's allowing me to play for my pleasure, it's easy for me to conform to his request.

The only other suggestion I have for the first time is be certain to communicate with each other at least through glances and smiles. In those first couple experiences, I always looked at my husband for reassurance that he was okay with what he was seeing me do!

03-10-2009, 03:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
screaminggood Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 843 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple	Re: Advice for the First Threesome? Here's a quandry for the OP: my advice is the exact opposite of the previous posters. My husband's preference is that my extra men be people that we have no history with, and outside of the sex, will have no future with....his concern is drama, and since it's allowing me to play for my pleasure, it's easy for me to conform to his request. The only other suggestion I have for the first time is be certain to communicate with each other at least through glances and smiles. In those first couple experiences, I always looked at my husband for reassurance that he was okay with what he was seeing me do!