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Old 03-09-2009, 11:38 PM   #1 (permalink)
NymphoWind
Make me purr...
 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 73
Location: Vancouver
Status: Couple

NymphoWind hasn't quite let us get to know them yet.
Default Advice for the First Threesome? - Calming Nerves

Well its about that time once again, me and my partner have been talking about our fantasies even more since the last attempt set up fell through...

The first thing that came up was a question for each other, and that was;
"Is making our fantasies something that should stay fantasies or something that should become reality?"
And the answer was simply "They should become reality!"

Anyways we've talked about the whole MFM and FMF set ups, and as far as it goes Shes completely up for the FMF play, only she wants me to find our unicorn...

With the MFM I'm completely interested in making it happan, as the very thought of it/looking at pictures online and picturing us in those situations are very much a huge turn on, and honestly something I have been fantasizing about alot, and a complete turn on for her also...

Anyways as finding the right single girl for the part is a bit harder than finding a willing male I do understand that it may be a while before we find our sexy 3rd for our hot first FMF, but in the mean time we are still very interested in having a MFM.

To make things better, we have been spending our time looking for the right guy for sometime now, along side of learning more about the lifestyle and involving someone in our play as much as we can, in our search we have found someone we both are currently interested in, he seems pretty cool, but before anything happens we'll probably take a little more time to make sure he's perfect for our first MFM play...

As time draws closer and closer to the actual set up, I'm sure we'll both become much more nervous about it, now the question I wanted to ask is from anyone who has had a new playmate join for the first time, what did you and your partner do to make things more comfortable/calm and less nervous?
This question applies for both MFM and FMF...

Thanks...
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