The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Why are people so hesitant to be surgically safe?

steversk · 03-09-2009, 03:30 PM

I got a vasectomy shortly after me and my second wife got married. We both decided we did not want children (I have one from my first marriage), and she did not want to be on the pill. The procedure was about 30 minutes, painless, and I had very little soreness after. Was back to work after a days rest. Went in after a month to have a a sperm count to make sure it had taken. I had zero swimmers so we were good to go. Since then, I have been very glad I had it done. Not having to worry about birth control with my wife is great. With anyone else I would always use a condom. To anyone that has decided for sure that they don't want children (or any more children I would highly recommend it.

03-09-2009, 03:30 PM	#32 (permalink)
steversk Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 38 Location: Lancaster Status: Couple	Re: Why are people so hesitant to be surgically safe? I got a vasectomy shortly after me and my second wife got married. We both decided we did not want children (I have one from my first marriage), and she did not want to be on the pill. The procedure was about 30 minutes, painless, and I had very little soreness after. Was back to work after a days rest. Went in after a month to have a a sperm count to make sure it had taken. I had zero swimmers so we were good to go. Since then, I have been very glad I had it done. Not having to worry about birth control with my wife is great. With anyone else I would always use a condom. To anyone that has decided for sure that they don't want children (or any more children I would highly recommend it.