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Originally Posted by Speed & Trixie  I'm sorry but it is ABSOLUTELY your responsibility to make sure you don't get pregnant if you do not wish to become so!
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I have to agree with this statement. Then I have to add one thing that no one else has addressed in this thread.... so you are fixed and you can't get pregnant... I think more people use condoms within swinging to prevent STDs than they do to prevent pregnancy.
As far as the pregnancy issue goes, I'm on the pill that is my choice on how to handle not wanting kids. I'd love to get fixed but the simple fact is that my insurance won't cover it unless it's a medical necessity (which it's not) and it's too costly (and too invasive of a procedure) for me to do unless it is a necessity.
Pet could get fixed and the discussion has come up, since we don't want children anyway. But, it's not something that either of us are pushing for because for us, the pregnancy issues is covered and for swinging we would be using condoms anyway (yes, they are not 100% effective in preventing ANYTHING but they do cut the risk).
I can see your argument here if you are a couple who is ONLY trying to prevent pregnancy and have no desire to reproduce ... but I just don't think that's the reason that most swingers use condoms. However, from what I have seen many swingers who will not use condoms and for whom pregnancy is still a concern they have taken that route. It all just comes down to what you want to do for you and what is important to you.