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Originally Posted by N8ture Girl  That is a typical comment. However other than not having sex, surgically safe is as close to 100% effective as you can get. No other method has that kind of reliability.
I do realize that you are in a greater risk group for complications and would never suggest you go under the knife, but what would you do if that condom breaks and a few months later you get that dreaded e-mail or phone call that your gonna be a daddy?
Just trying to generate some discussion on the topic of how men feel about getting a vasectomy. There seems to be more women that are surgically safe then men. Why do men fear it so? Do you think I am not scared to have my tubes tied? Well to be honest, I am terrified, after all they have to put me to sleep to do it, you men just get a local, then snip, snip and 30 minutes later you go home. |
To answer what is in bold... This is the blunt answer. I want no one getting near my nuts with a knife. One sneeze.....
You can do what if's all day. It's still not reality. I really dislike "what if" logic.
If someone isn't safe and you aren't comfortable with that for your situation then don't play with them. Not all situations require that someone be v-safe. My situation and life is different from others. I'll do it the way I want and they can do it the way they want and I'll find someone that is compatible with our chosen path.