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N8tureGirl and I have been in the lifestyle for just over a year now, and we’ve found that most of the males of the couples we’ve played with are not surgically safe. I am V-safe and as of this month, N8tureGirl will be surgically safe also. What I would like to know is: Why don’t more people address this issue? I do realize that there may be some people out here that might still wish to have children, but for the most part, if they haven’t had kids by now, what are they waiting for? After all, most of us here are 30 somethings or older.
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For some of us, it's a personal choice, and not a matter of "what are you waiting for?"
For me, it's as simple as I choose not to. My life, my options, my body, my choice. There are non-invasive and/or non-surgical ways to manage birth control and that's the method I've chosen. I figure men have the same right to choose, even if it's less invasive, etc.