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D-nice · 03-05-2009, 09:38 PM

I have a co-worker at my job who says she's a swinger...the topic came up one day when I informed her that there was rumors of a swing club near the workplace. She said she knows because she goes there from time to time.I thought she was jokin' until she started naming the other clubs in the area.

Me and her started talking because we're affliated with the military ..I'm was in for 10 years and she was the wife of a Marine so we can talk about a lot of things.

the swinger admission took me by surprise..I've been on various I/R boards and came across the names of the clubs in my area.I thought about going just out of curosity but never ventured to do so.The girl that I'm seeing right now is up for the idea but I'm still apprehensive.

I ask my co-worker could I tag along with her the next time just to get a feel for the place before I bring my girl and she said yeah.

The problem is my colleague has yet to take me up on the offer.
She gives me her e-mail but doesn't respond.When I inquire...she says she deletes alot of her e-mails.
She ask for my number but doesn't call.

This past Saturday, my colleague said she was going that night and said she would pick me up.I gave her my number again..still no pick-up or call.

The next day, she said it was raining too hard for her to drive (yes, it did rain that night but still at least she could have call to say that she wasn't coming.)

Should I give up on my co-worker.Mind you, I'm not interested in her..I just want to visit the place with someone that I know sort of as a comfort zone.

I don't want to push the issue with her since this is a workplace environment (sexual harassment, you understand)..she can be flakey at times.

any feedback is greatly appreciated...thx in advance.

03-05-2009, 09:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
D-nice Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 10 Location: south Status: single male	Is my co-worker putting me on? I have a co-worker at my job who says she's a swinger...the topic came up one day when I informed her that there was rumors of a swing club near the workplace. She said she knows because she goes there from time to time.I thought she was jokin' until she started naming the other clubs in the area. Me and her started talking because we're affliated with the military ..I'm was in for 10 years and she was the wife of a Marine so we can talk about a lot of things. the swinger admission took me by surprise..I've been on various I/R boards and came across the names of the clubs in my area.I thought about going just out of curosity but never ventured to do so.The girl that I'm seeing right now is up for the idea but I'm still apprehensive. I ask my co-worker could I tag along with her the next time just to get a feel for the place before I bring my girl and she said yeah. The problem is my colleague has yet to take me up on the offer. She gives me her e-mail but doesn't respond.When I inquire...she says she deletes alot of her e-mails. She ask for my number but doesn't call. This past Saturday, my colleague said she was going that night and said she would pick me up.I gave her my number again..still no pick-up or call. The next day, she said it was raining too hard for her to drive (yes, it did rain that night but still at least she could have call to say that she wasn't coming.) Should I give up on my co-worker.Mind you, I'm not interested in her..I just want to visit the place with someone that I know sort of as a comfort zone. I don't want to push the issue with her since this is a workplace environment (sexual harassment, you understand)..she can be flakey at times. any feedback is greatly appreciated...thx in advance.