Re: Interesting Article on Polyamory found on msnbc.com
As part of a three-way relationship, I can say that I feel lucky that I don't feel there's any compromise...it's all plus. My wife and I love and are committed to each other first. That's understood. Anna, our lover, is happy being single and doesn't want to have a full-time housemate, to say nothing of a husband. Sexually, my wife is "meh" on penetration - Anna and I love deep stroking more than anything. Our threesomes are usually me and Anna on the bed, and my wife in the recliner with a vibrator. She gets off on masturbating while watching us, and watching her heightens sex for us. (The image of my wife nude, spread eagle, in the throes of multiple orgasms, is still one of the things that makes life worth living.) Anna has been my wife Kari's "BFF" since they were 14, and she was my girlfriend before I hooked up with Kari. When Anna's daughter was younger, we babysat her quite often. For a single mom, that was invaluable.
I don't know, for us it just works.
But like I said, I am about the luckiest guy on earth.
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