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IndulgeNDivulge · 02-18-2009, 01:12 PM

Hi There,

Thanks for the replies ncmd_couple and slevin,

Well, I finally got the courage and communicated...with her!

I called her out on her giving us mixed signals and she played dumb. She is very confused. She said that she doesn't think that we would have gone all the way that night because she has issues with herself.

After talking with her, I felt overwhelmed because she was all over the place, so I told her that she needs to find herself and what she wants out of life!

We have become closer friends and I think it's best that it didn't go further than what it did because I don't think we would have continued ANY type of relationship if we took it to that level. I told her that if we did, she would have probably freaked out and she agreed.

Knowing more about her now, it makes sense that she was curious because her youngest sister is a lesbian and her other younger sister is bi-sexual. She, of course, became curious?

My husband is heart broken

and angry because she really did seem to be flirting with him and giving him the "eyes"...even I could see it. He said that he needs to pull back from her in order to get over it, but when she comes around, they are back to being flirty???

I know, wierd situation and we should probably both pull back from her, but we REALLY enjoy her company and at least all the cards are out on the table. All we know right now, is that she misses us as much as we do her when she's not here.

But, in the mean time, we are branching out and communicating with other people...We will be moving on to other lifestyle relationships - and she knows it!

I am trying to get all the info I can remember, out. But like I said, she is all over the place and this post is the same!

02-18-2009, 01:12 PM	#16 (permalink)
IndulgeNDivulge Registered Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 9 Location: California Status: Couple	Re: I kissed a girl and I liked it! Now ???'s Hi There, Thanks for the replies ncmd_couple and slevin, Well, I finally got the courage and communicated...with her! I called her out on her giving us mixed signals and she played dumb. She is very confused. She said that she doesn't think that we would have gone all the way that night because she has issues with herself. After talking with her, I felt overwhelmed because she was all over the place, so I told her that she needs to find herself and what she wants out of life! We have become closer friends and I think it's best that it didn't go further than what it did because I don't think we would have continued ANY type of relationship if we took it to that level. I told her that if we did, she would have probably freaked out and she agreed. Knowing more about her now, it makes sense that she was curious because her youngest sister is a lesbian and her other younger sister is bi-sexual. She, of course, became curious? My husband is heart broken and angry because she really did seem to be flirting with him and giving him the "eyes"...even I could see it. He said that he needs to pull back from her in order to get over it, but when she comes around, they are back to being flirty??? I know, wierd situation and we should probably both pull back from her, but we REALLY enjoy her company and at least all the cards are out on the table. All we know right now, is that she misses us as much as we do her when she's not here. But, in the mean time, we are branching out and communicating with other people...We will be moving on to other lifestyle relationships - and she knows it! I am trying to get all the info I can remember, out. But like I said, she is all over the place and this post is the same!