[Lovers6770]

I would like to hear peoples ideas/comments/experiences on the subject of "married" (unmarried, but LTR committed counts) couples that "decide" (no cheating spouses here) to have/try the "open marriage" concept. This should include ALL types of sexual preferences and combinations be it 1on1, 3some, group/orgy, gangbang, same sex, mixed sexes, etc. Don't count "cyber/penpal" only direct encounters.

I define an "open marriage" as when:

one or both "spouses" are "free" to have "casual" (not considering "poly" relationships here - future thread) sexual interactions (not just sex & includes fetish encounters) with partners they:

individually choose (i.e. not mutually chosen) OR

choose jointly, but decide individually when. (I don't count "occassional" times when one "spouse" decides to "opt-out" of playing but "let's" their spouse still play. Key word here is "occassionally".

Suggestions of areas to include in your posts are:

Break this out into vouyer and non-vouyer non-playing "spouses" as a youyer spouse has "some vested interest in the activities.

Please make a distinction between playing "solo" and "mutual separate nights out" be it concurrent or alternate days (i.e. couples with children where one watches with the kids or without but doesn't play the same day).

I would also like to make a distinction between

"swinging" couples that "occassionally" play either in separate rooms with unrelated partners or have a "yearly" solo sexual excounters AND

couples that make a regular occurance (over an extented period of time) in addition to sex just the two of them. Don't count a "yearly week long fling" i.e. (couples that have an annual sexual vacation apart at hedo for example).

Please make a distinction between couples that have one or both spouses that are "professionals" (i.e. sexual interactions are part of their livelyhood (i.e. strippers/porn/prosititues) and non-pros (all others).

Sincerely,
Paul & Kalin