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Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple  Your sex drive belongs to you not your spouse, you are responsible for a low sex drive. If they have a low sex drive you just ain't getting none.  |
Well said
It's just too easy to place blame. After all, isn't that what most of today's society wants to do? God forbid we look at ourselves, it HAS to be someone's fault!
Yes, with so many couples today, with or without kids, life can get in the way quicker than the blink of an eye. Work, work stress, financial stress, worries, whatever. It all takes a toll on our energy level and willingness to leave it aside long enough to spend quality time with our spouses.
Nope, it's not easy. And it's easier for so many couples to either blame the other half, or just call it quits. It takes WORK for any relationship to blossom. And sometimes that means sex or hot dates do have to be scheduled on the calendar. "Ohhh, but then we lose spontaneity". So??? You find the time, you make it happen. And the sex drive skyrockets.... Can't speak for men, but for me, the more sex we have, the more I want. The less we have, the less I desire it.
Mrs. NC.