[iapr]

We are both caucasion and our preference is caucasion but we still have the same issues as you. This really isn't about race or skin color but more a matter of finding people both of you are attracted to and comfortable and we all have that challenge to one degree or another.

Finding another couple where all four people are attracted and comfortable with each other four a straight up full swap is very hard to do under ideal circumstances and the more you try to add different qualifications and requirements into the equation the more you will decrease your opportunities.

If you try to narrow your search to White fem/Arab male couples that are open to the idea of swinging you are going to be looking for needles in haystacks. What happens when you find that one in million couple and there turns out to be no attraction, then what?

Race issues aside, you really are dealing with a universal issue in swinging and that is the issue of finding mutual attraction between couples. So my advice will be that I give to all couples considering entering the lifestyle and that is do your homework and research swinging as much as you can. Put up a profile on a swingers website that serves your local area and then get out to a lifestyle club and start meeting real swingers in person.

Perhaps the more you get to know individuals as unique human beings and look past the melanin level in their skin you will find some that you have an acceptable level of attraction for.