[The Fuse]

I agree with the others. As we have gained more experience, I've found more types of guys attractive. If you go out to parties and meet and greet events, I would suggest talking to a lot of people. You might be surprised.

Think of it this way -- you were looking for specific things when you met your boyfriend. Those things are important in someone you love and spend a lot of time with. But for someone you are only going to see casually, if they do not have all the same qualities, you can enjoy the things you find attractive about them and not worry about the things you wouldn't be into for a long-term relationship. Of course, this will only work if you sometimes find different types somewhat attractive, even if you wouldn't have wanted a real dating relationship with them. A few hours together and some casual sex is a different thing entirely.