[IvoryTowers]

I agree that there's nothing wrong with being picky, but you should push your perceived boundaries a little as you get into swinging. The whole set up is so sexy, you might be surprised what/who attracts you!

I have a very definite type as well, but I've had a great time with men who were not at all that type. Would I want to have sex with just that man lots of times? Probably not. But in a swap situation, it works.

I wouldn't rush out and swap with a WASP, but don't automatically turn down, say, Italians or Hispanics. Of course, if it isn't working, you should switch back to your own partner, but if you really want to give this a try, be open minded in all ways!