I have a question for the expierienced couples on the board. For quite a while I have had the desire to be in a more sexually charged environment while having sex with my husband. Now, I have been hanging around this board and learned a lot about the maturity required to swing and I must say I am impresed by a lot of you. The reason I bring this up is because I would like your opinions. I am wanting to find some couples or groups that are open and mature like yourselves to watch while each couple has sex.
I am in my 20's and find that a lot of couples around my age lack maturity when it is called for. Of course for a lot of couples at any age it seems can barely keep there own relationships together. On the other hand it seems that a lot of you put respect and your relationships above all else. Other than the fact that I am not technicly a swinger(yet
), I feel you people share more in common with my ideals than most groups of people.
I would love to try new things but Im not near ready for a 4some or swaping. However, I feel that being in and getting comfortable as a couple around swingers would open the door to a lot of new expieriences for me.
So I was curious how the couples on here would feel about having a non swaping couple around having sex in the same room as them. Does it make a difference to you if there are just 2 couples, more than 2, group sex, or swaping going on in the room? What do you think the best way to go about it would be? Is this something that Swingers in general accept?