Hello all,
I'm new to the forum and my bf and I are curious about swinging. I've read some of the archived threads regarding interracial swinging but since they're archived I can't post or interact with anyone!
We're an interracial couple, but perhaps a rarer form than the usual - I'm white and he's arab. He's really into the idea of swinging and is pretty serious about doing it. I'm open to the idea but I'm not attracted to white guys - at all (nor am I bi). All of my prior boyfriends have been from other nationalities (with the exception of two - and the problem there was that I wasn't attracted to them, lol). I'm not really into black guys either - I just like guys who are tan with dark hair (esp middle eastern).
I guess I'm just concerned that either we won't be able to do this due to a lack of suitable male swingers - or that I'll end up reluctantly swinging with someone I'm not attracted to.
Any thoughts? Have others come across non-white/non-black swingers? Are there particular areas where such couples might be more common? Are there any ON HERE?
I know I'm making it difficult *sigh* I'm just picky...
Another option is that we just go with his second fantasy - seeing me with another guy... we've got a few on 'the list' of some of the arab guys we know that I'm attracted to and seem like they'd potentially go for it (one of them has already indirectly tried, lol). I'm definitely up for that and it would be fulfilling for him too. I'd just feel bad that we couldn't fulfill his fantasy of swinging.
