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2plus2fun · 02-11-2009, 05:37 PM

We didn't have any issues with our first experience... or the next 10 experiences... however, in the last couple of months there have been 2 instances where I did get angry. The first was an instance where one of our rules was broken by my wife and another fellow... and that pissed me off. I am over it now... but I was pissed off nonetheless.

The next was just a couple of weeks ago when we were at the club and there was a single guy there that had gotten a single girl to bring him with her... so he was at the club on a night that single guys aren't allowed without special permission and he wasn't with the girl that brought him. Anyway, he kept following Sharon around like a puppy dog and that was kind of bugging me a little... since we were there with another couple. What really sent me over the top is when she turned away from him to speak with someone and he reached down and picked up the back of her skirt (a very short miniskirt)... stuck his tongue out like a dog panting and played like he was grabbing her ass... she didn't notice that he did that but I immediately felt my head explode... I walked over and told him to leave her be... he got mouthy about it and I actually yelled at him... "Get to stepping motherfucker, don't make me tell you again...". Then a couple of other dudes who know me stepped in and escorted him off... I am glad because I really didn't want to be banned from the club for fighting.

I think any husband who isn't in a strictly open marriage will feel some jealousy or anger at some point. I don't know if it's the whole territory thing... or just a protective thing... but I hope that I don't experience that again...

02-11-2009, 05:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
2plus2fun Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 62 Location: Huntersville, NC Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:shawn_and_sharon	Re: Your first time... We didn't have any issues with our first experience... or the next 10 experiences... however, in the last couple of months there have been 2 instances where I did get angry. The first was an instance where one of our rules was broken by my wife and another fellow... and that pissed me off. I am over it now... but I was pissed off nonetheless. The next was just a couple of weeks ago when we were at the club and there was a single guy there that had gotten a single girl to bring him with her... so he was at the club on a night that single guys aren't allowed without special permission and he wasn't with the girl that brought him. Anyway, he kept following Sharon around like a puppy dog and that was kind of bugging me a little... since we were there with another couple. What really sent me over the top is when she turned away from him to speak with someone and he reached down and picked up the back of her skirt (a very short miniskirt)... stuck his tongue out like a dog panting and played like he was grabbing her ass... she didn't notice that he did that but I immediately felt my head explode... I walked over and told him to leave her be... he got mouthy about it and I actually yelled at him... "Get to stepping motherfucker, don't make me tell you again...". Then a couple of other dudes who know me stepped in and escorted him off... I am glad because I really didn't want to be banned from the club for fighting. I think any husband who isn't in a strictly open marriage will feel some jealousy or anger at some point. I don't know if it's the whole territory thing... or just a protective thing... but I hope that I don't experience that again...