Re: Your first time...
Caution is the watch word. I (Mr Cpl) was always the jelous one. Took many years to get past that. Mrs. Cpl on the other hand was never jelous. We had soft played with other couples many times and it always got hotter and hotter. Talking, playing and then going our seperate ways to have the most mind blowing sex we could remember. The first time that we had a full swap everything changed. I was okay with/turned on by seeing another man pleasuring her. She had trouble handling seeing me pleasure another woman. No drama, and she did not say anything until later, but it made it very difficult for her to enjoy herself while I was even within earshot. Since then we have gone back to soft for now. She still would like to explore F/F play and even have a FFM, but does not yet feel comfortable seeing me with another woman. So we just enjoy life and wait.
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