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SOONERCOUPLE99 · 02-08-2009, 03:53 AM

I want to sincerely thank everyone for their honest and cogent replies.

But it is kind of a moot point now, because it just happened. My wife and her were spending the evening together talking about sexual openness and their fantasies. And my wife told her that this morning, we had sex while fantasizing swapping with them.

The husband and I finished our night out early and decided to head over to his house to see how things were going. We sat down and they were being giggly. Later we found out they were making Valentine's Day plans to play with each other for us. So we start talking, I decide to ramp up things a little and I throw out some compliments. The wives finally decide to play a little and before you know it we are all intertwined going at it.

I had completely planned for this to be really slow, but it was just a whirlwind. It was pretty amazing and all parties loved it. It is funny that there was absolutely no jealousy. I had a little stage fright but had a great time none the less. I am sparing all the details, but I can share if you guys like.

I would say that swinging with your friends isn't for everyone. We are all really close, honest, and secure. We all go to church together, and it is funny but I even prayed for guidance in this matter. I knew I wanted this but I didn't want to mess anything up in the process. My wife and I have been together for almost 13 years and the other couple had been together for around a decade. My wife knows exactly but I just can't keep track of my friends anniversary. My point is that we have all four had a long time to settle into our relationships and made it past some of the traditionally more challenging years.

A lot of the other things I read on this were people who had been together for a small amount of time, something like only a year. In that case, I would advise against swinging though I think I would have been cool then, my wife would not have. So maybe our success has something to do with the length and security of both marriages.

So, next meeting will be Valentine's Day, dinner and bed party at our house. None of us can hardly wait

02-08-2009, 03:53 AM	#11 (permalink)
SOONERCOUPLE99 Registered Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 6 Location: Oklahoma Status: Couple	Re: Approaching a Couple? I want to sincerely thank everyone for their honest and cogent replies. But it is kind of a moot point now, because it just happened. My wife and her were spending the evening together talking about sexual openness and their fantasies. And my wife told her that this morning, we had sex while fantasizing swapping with them. The husband and I finished our night out early and decided to head over to his house to see how things were going. We sat down and they were being giggly. Later we found out they were making Valentine's Day plans to play with each other for us. So we start talking, I decide to ramp up things a little and I throw out some compliments. The wives finally decide to play a little and before you know it we are all intertwined going at it. I had completely planned for this to be really slow, but it was just a whirlwind. It was pretty amazing and all parties loved it. It is funny that there was absolutely no jealousy. I had a little stage fright but had a great time none the less. I am sparing all the details, but I can share if you guys like. I would say that swinging with your friends isn't for everyone. We are all really close, honest, and secure. We all go to church together, and it is funny but I even prayed for guidance in this matter. I knew I wanted this but I didn't want to mess anything up in the process. My wife and I have been together for almost 13 years and the other couple had been together for around a decade. My wife knows exactly but I just can't keep track of my friends anniversary. My point is that we have all four had a long time to settle into our relationships and made it past some of the traditionally more challenging years. A lot of the other things I read on this were people who had been together for a small amount of time, something like only a year. In that case, I would advise against swinging though I think I would have been cool then, my wife would not have. So maybe our success has something to do with the length and security of both marriages. So, next meeting will be Valentine's Day, dinner and bed party at our house. None of us can hardly wait