Thread: Can't seem to find the right words!
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Old 02-07-2009, 12:25 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: Can't seem to find the right words!
Like some others here, I think a little more information might help...

I hesitate to ask this, because I don't want to come off as overly suspicious, but... if you and your husband have not been having sex, and it seems that you are both just tired and uninspired, I would like to hear that you are sure he is not having an affair. When a husband loses interest in sex for an extended period of time, that is what I think of.

But if you as a couple just need something to kick your sex drives back in gear, it would be much preferred if you could do it on your own first. If you don't have a strong sexual bond as a couple, then inviting others into your sex life could expose your marriage to a lot of strain.
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