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Old 02-07-2009, 11:17 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: Can't seem to find the right words!

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Originally Posted by Kitty2009 View Post
I (f in couple) can't seem to bring up the subject of swinging with my husband! I am unsure if he would be interested, but I am. We are happy but more just great friends and work partners than lovers anymore. I had LOTS of sex when single and would love to get way more into sex again but not screw up my marriage.
Does anyone have advice on how to open the first discusion?
If you start the conversation with "I would just love to have another cock..." then it might not go so well... I would say that the optimum time to bring up the subject is during foreplay... something like "I had a day dream about watching you with another woman today and it got me so hot...". You should be able to easily see his reaction at that point.
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