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Old 02-06-2009, 08:25 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Can't seem to find the right words!

Are you and your husband open about your fantasies? Perhaps talking about your fantasies is a nice way to warm him up to the idea. Not necessarily in the same conversation, but it is a good start. If you plant a seed in his mind about a certain scenario, it might grow into a strong desire for him as well. On the other hand, swinging may not be his thing. IMHO this is a good way to start talking about it.
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