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Originally Posted by jjtrindc  One place we would suggest is a place like Desire. Last time we went, the crowd we ended up hanging with was made up of swingers and nudists...but nobody actually used any labels. It was pretty easy to pick up on who were swingers and who were nudists by the type of vibe they put out. Key is to avoid going during a takeover which tends to be a much more sexual crowd. As for us, we deliberately picked a takeover crowd for our return to Desire Cancun...lol! |
We still very much consider ourselves newbies at this, but this technique has worked well for us. In fact, thus far it has been the ONLY way we have hooked up with other couples. It helps that we live only two hours from Sea Mountain in Palm Springs. The environment there is similar to Desire on a takeover week, but it is like that all the time.
We have made lots of very good friends there over the past year that we have been going, and have recently begun playing with some. But we have also played with couples that we just met that day and felt comfortable with.
Last Monday we returned from a week at Desire, with a non-takeover crowd, and were really bored with the "activity" level there. I think that even a non-swinging nudist would have felt somewhat bored as well because of so many people being dressed or only partially nude. Maybe we just went at a bad time. Or maybe, as I suspect, we have just gotten used to hanging out in a nude, openly sexually-charged atmosphere.
