 Re: Approaching a Couple?
Sooner,
Well, normally I fall on the don't play with vanila friends side of things. But this is a different situation from the norm. Let me suggest this. Why don't you just tell them about this "site we found" and point them to the Swinger's Board. Let them get a feel for swinging before the conversation goes any farther.
The reason that I suggest this is that there is no rush in this. You two need to figure out where you are at as far as swinging goes, and they need to do the same thing. Knowledge is a powerful thing, so is the lack therof. What all four of you learn here, then as individual couples decide what you want, will greatly improve your success.
In the long run, you have great friends that you can talk about swinging without the pressure to actually swing with each other. You can discuss what you all read here, participate in the forums and get on a steady footing first.
S
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