A little more FYI. We have always been under the impression that swinging with vanilla friends is a bad idea and figured that was a pretty accepted idea. But after running this poll, these are the votes we received to date:
Is it a bad idea to swing with good "vanilla" friends?
I don't know, but please show me the answers. (43%, 111 Votes)
It is a very bad idea. (24%, 62 Votes)
It is OK. (20%, 52 Votes)
It is not only OK, they make the best play partners! (12%, 32 Votes)
That means:
42% Against
58% For
With 22% saying it was not only OK, but they made great play partners.
Just a little food for thought. I think the big key one needs to take into a situaiton like this is the extreme jeopardy they put the relationship in should things turn ugly!
that additional $.02 brings us up to a total of $.04 on the topic.
~texasfun