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Old 02-05-2009, 06:04 PM   #1 (permalink)
SOONERCOUPLE99
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Join Date: Feb 2009
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Location: Oklahoma
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Default Approaching Close Friends?

My wife and I are very interested in swinging and we have some friends that are very close to us. I know they have spoken about swinging and group sex before but have not went through with it. My wife and her have already talked about making out. I have talked with the husband and he is good to go, but as I thought my wife needs to talk to his wife.

So how should we approach this? I have seen two options so far:

1) My wife speaks with her this weekend and brings it up in much the same manner I did, just talking about fantasies and openness in our relationships.

or

2) We all sit down and talk about it. This would help my wife because I think she is more than a little nervous to bring up the subject. But I feel it might overwhelm the other wife.

I just want everyone to feel comfortable and at ease, and think this is a very real, very soon possibility.
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