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Originally Posted by Baconheads  Nice to meet you all, here’s where we are all at. T is my name, the dude, T & A we are. Has a nice ring to it don’t you think? Baconhead is an old summer camp nickname I just pulled off of the top of my head. Don’t ask why, don’t know. Maybe true anonymity. So we have never swung…swang? Swinged? If it were my choice, we would so be swingers. I fell in love with the lifestyle when I read my first Heinlein science fiction novel. A, however, would never think of such a thing, as she does not like wearing a skimpy (not thong) bikini on a deserted beach, even though she has a great body. She has said that sex is a very personal thing that shouldn’t be shared with anyone.
So here is the deal. We are going to Hawaii with two couples next week. The sexual banter is very thick with these people. They stayed after a party after the other guests left at our house a few weeks ago, presumably so that the conversation could get a little more bawdy. You all should have heard it after McSteamy broke his you-know-what on “Greys Anatomy.” [Read “McScreamy!]
Anyway, we’re staying with one of the couples in their condo (Two bedroom) and I would like to see something evolve into a same room, same partner scenario, but I know doggone well that if I suggest it, it will fall on the floor like a stinking turd. It has to be the girls’ idea, or at least think it’s their idea, for the thing to fly.
Any suggestions? |
Good old Robert Heinlein, making nerds into swingers for 40 years. I got my idea on swinging from his books as well.
If you are going to Maui I have to suggest you go to little beach. Its a very well known and very beautiful nude beach. The trick is to go to big beach (which is very nice) and you walk north up the beach, over a little cinder cone (there will be a good number of people going to and from easy to find) and you are at a very beautiful beach.
Now I would NOT suggest you go there with your friends the first time, she might be to embarrassed and feel the need to protest to maintain what she sees as proper behavior. The first time I went with my wife we were very newbie swingers but Mrs. Chicup was to shy to go nude in public like that. Well since EVERY woman was at least topless, that made her stand out for not being topless and she removed her top. Finally by the end of the week she was going full monty and had a blast. If you go Sunday its full of music playing hippies which can be quite fun to watch. There is no rule that you have to be nude there either so she can warm up to it (or not) at her own pace. Its such a nice beach that there is no real reason not to hang out there beyond the nude bit, so it won't give her to many secondary reasons to leave. Be warned though the currents are strong, (and thats true of all the beaches on that side of the island) so don't leave standing areas in the water unless you are strong swimmers.
Oh and whatever you do DON'T push play of any kind with your friends without her agreeing to it prior, and sober.