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Two4funinpa · 02-02-2009, 08:25 AM

I think you really can get a good or bad vibe from a profile. My advice would be to follow your intuition. Communicate very clearly what works for the two of you. It is all about learning and growing and even after swinging for many years you still can learn new things or be reminded of things you forgot. Never take a change of minds even in the middle of an encounter to heart, it is better that it ended then got ugly. As far as the other couple changing their profile it is just sparing someone else from your disappointment. Another big red flag is someone too eager or in to big of a hurry to meet. I'd tread that water carefully also.
Live and learn and live again. Enjoy!

02-02-2009, 08:25 AM	#7 (permalink)
Two4funinpa Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 10 Location: PA Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Two4funinpa	Re: Odd occurance-ever happened to you? I think you really can get a good or bad vibe from a profile. My advice would be to follow your intuition. Communicate very clearly what works for the two of you. It is all about learning and growing and even after swinging for many years you still can learn new things or be reminded of things you forgot. Never take a change of minds even in the middle of an encounter to heart, it is better that it ended then got ugly. As far as the other couple changing their profile it is just sparing someone else from your disappointment. Another big red flag is someone too eager or in to big of a hurry to meet. I'd tread that water carefully also. Live and learn and live again. Enjoy!