All good advice here, but have to say that we totally know where you are coming from. So often we go to clubs and get so into each other, dancing, making out, etc, that we never end up playing with others. We often get comments from other couples about how it looks like we are having so much fun together. It's not that we are against playing or anything, but its not our priority. We still go home with big smiles on our faces
At the end of the day, go and enjoy the sexy vibe and each other. Let the rest happen when you are ready.