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lustylearning · 02-01-2009, 11:10 PM

After reading your post, I'm trying to understand something. When they asked if you wanted to go to the back, did you go to the back and stay with Mrs. Shy? If so, then you may have been sending a mixed signal, which frustrated the couple. If I'm understanding correctly, you were asked to play and wound up sticking together somehow. If this is the case, you just may need to break out of your comfort zone and switch partners more quickly. Even if you're looking for soft swap, you need to swap partners.

In defense of the other woman, it does not sound to me like she was being a prima donna. She may very well be, but it sounds to me like she was simply voicing her frustrations.

Don't be bothered by the fact that they changed their profile. They are simply being more direct about what they seek.

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lustylearning Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 814 Location: Virginia Status: female half	Re: Odd occurance-ever happened to you? After reading your post, I'm trying to understand something. When they asked if you wanted to go to the back, did you go to the back and stay with Mrs. Shy? If so, then you may have been sending a mixed signal, which frustrated the couple. If I'm understanding correctly, you were asked to play and wound up sticking together somehow. If this is the case, you just may need to break out of your comfort zone and switch partners more quickly. Even if you're looking for soft swap, you need to swap partners. In defense of the other woman, it does not sound to me like she was being a prima donna. She may very well be, but it sounds to me like she was simply voicing her frustrations. Don't be bothered by the fact that they changed their profile. They are simply being more direct about what they seek.