I'm really glad to hear that your first full swap went well for both of you!
Nervousness beforehand is to be expected - Lin and I have been doing this for several years now, and we still get nervous from time to time - depends on the couple, and the situation. The first time you do
anything is always the most difficult. I'm just glad to hear that you had such a great time with your first time. Bravo!
Now is the time for a lot of communication, and just spending time together. If there are any regrets, mixed emotions, or bad feelings, they'll come out soon. The point is to be there for one another and assure one another that you're still number one. A lot has changed between you two - maybe you don't see it yet, but it has. You each have to make it absolutely clear to each other that your love for one another is
not one of those things.