On the "doing something just because we're there," the wife is still some jumpy about this. I doubt she'd let us do anything she / we aren't comfortable with. We had another heart-to-heart last night, in part because, well, my imagination was running ahead of the script, and trying to guess the ending.
Her biggest concern was disappointing, and hurting me. As I told her, while likely if she were to decide (hopefully after we go at least once) that this isn't for us, yes, I'd be disappointed, but not hurt. We're in this together, one way or the other.
I think I might suggest we go to one of the local off-premise tonight, just for the heck of it.
everyone!
Mr.