 Re: How do you feel about newbs who don't swap?
I'd recommend off-premise as well, but the best off-premise one I know is in Burlington Ont, which is a long way from where you are.
Off-premise is nice because you can avoid making an impetuous decision that you wouldn't have made if you had to leave the place and go somewhere else. It might occasionally kill the mood, but on the other hand, you're less likely to end up doing something (or someone) just because you're there. Yes let people know upfront, but that shouldn't be a problem. Lots of people go to off-premise places not to hook up, but to dance dirty and socialize, and in our experience when you meet someone new there anyway, practically the first thing they say is "How long have you been in the lifestyle?" and then you can just take it from there.
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