 Re: How do you feel about newbs who don't swap?
We did full swap the first time, but being fairly new ourselves, we certainly understand that some newbies would just want to have a same-room, own-spouse experience to get their feet wet. Like others have stated, we'd prefer knowing early on that this was the preference. Just as always, it comes down to communication and common courtesy. If a couple were to wait a couple of hours into our relatively rare evening out to let us know about this particular "limitation," we probably wouldn't be very happy with them. We're probably there with hopes of finding playmates, and while we're certainly willing to plant the seeds for future encounters, we'd prefer to know their intentions up front.
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