We don't mind lending an ear, and talking about the subject of swinging to anyone seriously interested. We have learned enough ourselves this far, to appreciate new peoples feelings. It does happen sometimes with people we meet in our pursuit of potential playmates. And there is a time and place for that.
You say this is in a club setting right ? Because it makes a difference.
If we venture to a club now days, we have full intentions of seeking sexual compatible people when we make it to the club. We do like socializing, but we came to play also. We are usually pretty revved up you might say, after talking between ourselves prior to getting there. We may even have intentions of meeting someone in particular by this time. Then again we may be hoping for just a plain sexual connection with anyone.
Playing with each other is fun. But, we are hoping to extend ourselves. It depends on the circumstances whether we would join a couple for same room same partner sex. We have talked the night away before and done nothing.... It happens.
The thing is, this is one reason we go with a suite when we go out. If its just sex between ourselves because for what ever reasons we find playing with others isn't going to happen, we would be far more comfortable back at our hotel in a hot tub together.
We do ask for company
