The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How do you feel about newbs who don't swap?

awesomecplmn · 01-30-2009, 08:26 AM

WarrenCouple,

It's great that you are asking questions and starting to consider what may/may not make you comfortable as you think about visiting a club and possibly playing. Be completely honest with people and let them know you are nervous and that with the right couple you are thinking you'd like to try some same room sex to start.

If it was me, first of all, I'd be flattered that you felt comfortable enough with my hubby and I to consider having your first experience (even if there was no swapping) with us. And second, most swingers LOVE having sex with their spouses, so this is not an issue at all. I may have sex with other people, but I still have the best sex with my #1!!

01-30-2009, 08:26 AM	#5 (permalink)
awesomecplmn Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 56 Location: Minnesota Status: Couple	Re: How do you feel about newbs who don't swap? WarrenCouple, It's great that you are asking questions and starting to consider what may/may not make you comfortable as you think about visiting a club and possibly playing. Be completely honest with people and let them know you are nervous and that with the right couple you are thinking you'd like to try some same room sex to start. If it was me, first of all, I'd be flattered that you felt comfortable enough with my hubby and I to consider having your first experience (even if there was no swapping) with us. And second, most swingers LOVE having sex with their spouses, so this is not an issue at all. I may have sex with other people, but I still have the best sex with my #1!!
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