The Swingers Board - View Single Post - 24, New to The Lifestyle...Questions about finding female for third

twoforone100 · 01-30-2009, 08:05 AM

First there is nothing wrong with what you guys want. Is it gonna be easy. NO.. Might you find a single girl at a swing club you might but our of the 150 couples on new years eve at our club there were 6 single females for the club that was a busy night. Now it is different at every club and even parts of the country. I am pretty sure that most swing couple who are same room full swap are not going to let you play with the woman with out the man playing. Soft swap might allow you to play with females. But we find there are so few truly soft swap couples.. But then we really are not looking for them either.

Most of the couples who have been swinging for a little while have heard a story much like yours before. Sometimes it is the male who can't see his wife with another man, sometimes it is the woman who just can't see herself with another man. Either way they usually just want to hear that there is an easy way to get what they want.. There is no easy way or short cuts.... it is that simple... You have to work it and use the advice that you have already read.. Good luck in your search...

01-30-2009, 08:05 AM	#7 (permalink)
twoforone100 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 218 Location: Richmond Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twoforone100	Re: 24, New to The Lifestyle...LOTS OF QUESTIONS!!! First there is nothing wrong with what you guys want. Is it gonna be easy. NO.. Might you find a single girl at a swing club you might but our of the 150 couples on new years eve at our club there were 6 single females for the club that was a busy night. Now it is different at every club and even parts of the country. I am pretty sure that most swing couple who are same room full swap are not going to let you play with the woman with out the man playing. Soft swap might allow you to play with females. But we find there are so few truly soft swap couples.. But then we really are not looking for them either. Most of the couples who have been swinging for a little while have heard a story much like yours before. Sometimes it is the male who can't see his wife with another man, sometimes it is the woman who just can't see herself with another man. Either way they usually just want to hear that there is an easy way to get what they want.. There is no easy way or short cuts.... it is that simple... You have to work it and use the advice that you have already read.. Good luck in your search...