Finding your perfect couples match is not easy. Even when there is a spark between all parties initially, sometimes once things get intimate you will find that sexually things just don't go well for one or both of you. We like to get to know people at least a little bit before taking things to the next level. Others like to meet and sleep right away. It just depends on how you want to approach it and what you are comfortable with.
If a couple cancels on us more than one time, we move on, FWIW.
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Originally Posted by LilyPuss  Also, one of the couples we met on-line, we spoke with them via email several times, eventually exchanging phone numbers. We had a few meetings set up; they kept canceling (we understand, life does happen), though we were willing to give them another shot. The husband kept pestering us to change our mind on the same room only thing (they wanted separate rooms, we don't). We kept politely declining, telling him we may change our minds later, but for now, no. I started getting creeped out by him. They also did not like our choice of clubs we like (fair enough). All of a sudden they wanted to go to the club we enjoy, asking us every few days if we were available on such and such a date. We have explained to them, we don't want to meet people we are interested in in such a sexual environment for the first meeting (meeting folks at a club is a completely different situation). How do you handle people like this? Also, we both suspect that he is not really married, he has a friend for such hook-ups, to more or less get him in the door. Does this happen often? |
Sounds like a drama bomb and trouble -- Run, fast!