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Originally Posted by 24inflorida

Hi Everyone! My husband and I are new to the community, and just testing the waters. There is so much info on this forum, it's awesome! But...there is still alot we don't understand about the lifestyle.
We are from Central Florida, so I guess it's a great place to be. There are Swinger Clubs everywhere, but we've never been to one, and we don't know any swingers to show is around.
Here is my main question. I don't want to be with another man, at all. Even if the opportunity came up, and my hubby said it was OK, I still wouldn't.
Is there chances for us, say at a swinger club, to find single women? Or couples where the man wants his wife to have sex with another man but not get any in return? (We would both watch my husband and the other woman.) Also my husband is completely straight, and would not want to be involved with another man...but would be OK with being watched. This is all we want. I know it's almost impossible to find a MFF threesome, but We just really don't want another man involved. (I am bisexual) ANY ADVISE? I have read alot of posts that advise against things like this and say it is very hard to find, but I've never been to a swinger club, and have no idea what to expext. I also know that the age range at most swinger clubs is about 10years older than we are, at 24years old.
We have a good relationship, have been married for almost 3 years, and have talked about this alot. We feel that we're mature enough to handle the ramifictions...mainly that I won't freak out when I see my husband having sex with another girl, so we're ready to go, but don't know where to start. We have joined Swing Lifestyle though! I like that site. So help us out!

It's not impossible to find an FMF -- just hard. We found one in our first two months of swinging. It sounds like your best bet is to start out as a soft swap couple. Specify that you are looking for female only play and that the males can play with their own mate only, or set certain limits on what the males can do. There are plenty of soft swing couples out there and this will be easier than finding a single female. However, don't give up on finding one before you ever start! They ARE out there! Good luck and let us know how things develop.