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Old 01-24-2009, 10:25 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Default Re: Okay, here goes!

I feel like we might be hijacking this thread here...

ncmd_couple, you are correct that we didn't have a "no means no" rule, and therefore she didn't violate the rules.

It is the way in which she has gone about this that worries me. The rushed, single-minded pursuit of a very dangerous situation, the rationalizations, the lies, the fact that she placed greater importance on a stranger's feelings than her husband's. Her behaviour is uncharacteristic to say the least. That is the issue.
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