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pants_1 · 01-24-2009, 04:15 PM

ncmd couple,

I am really happy it worked out that way for you! That is wonderful!

I do know that she loves me. I think maybe my problem is more that she's willing to hurt me. The scenario I laid out is very much what I'm afraid of here. Which also means that, in some ways, her love for me and our son may be holding her back. that stinks too.

But you are right, that is the 3 trillion dollar question. Along with "can I trust her again," and "will she consider some kind of counseling?" But first, when she comes home, is she still committed to the plan?

Again, much appreciated!

01-24-2009, 04:15 PM	#21 (permalink)
pants_1 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 50 Location: ... Status: ...	Re: Okay, here goes! ncmd couple, I am really happy it worked out that way for you! That is wonderful! I do know that she loves me. I think maybe my problem is more that she's willing to hurt me. The scenario I laid out is very much what I'm afraid of here. Which also means that, in some ways, her love for me and our son may be holding her back. that stinks too. But you are right, that is the 3 trillion dollar question. Along with "can I trust her again," and "will she consider some kind of counseling?" But first, when she comes home, is she still committed to the plan? Again, much appreciated!