 Re: Okay, here goes!
Jon,
No, that wasn't or isn't my situation. What I posted there was an event in life that taught me alot about myself and it was over two years ago. Since then, I have married the woman that I was going to leave and we are very happy together.
As for the situation that you find with your wife. Love is a tricky term and what she thinks it means will have a lot to do with how the concept of love was communicated to her. In other words. She is not able to attain the level of "love" that she thinks it should be, therefore, "she can not love like that." But that doesn't mean that she doesn't love you. She just loves you in her own way.
No one is perfect, I sure as hell am not! So the decision that the two of you have to come together on is whether you can accept each other as you are and live happily with each other. Or you can't. If she cares about you and loves you in her own way, but likes to step out every once in a while for a little strange, is that something you can accept. If it is, then that is ok. If it isn't, then that is ok also.
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