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Originally posted by uneed_love2
Please assure me that this is not normal behaviour in a club! Because this post brought a lot of fears to the surface.
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In our experience Uneed2, you have no need to worry. We have attended four different clubs several times and other than the one night we attended when single males were in attendance we had no problems what so ever. Speaking only for the clubs we have been to, you can do as much or as little as you desire. No one forces you into anything. In all actuality, if you don't make the effort to meet up with couples, you will probably will not get involved with many. As it will be your first visit and given your limited time together, I'd suggest just going and enjoying the atmosphere and not attempting to meet up with some one to swing with. This doesn't mean that you can't watch those that loved to be watched, or socialize with others.
In my opinion, I wouldn't suggest ANYONE swinging on a first meet, but then that is just me. Others are comfortable with it, I am not. Take it slow and don't push yourselves.
Lori