When I read this post, I was really disturbed! I didn't know why and only realized it after reading a lot of the answers.
The reason it disturbs me so much is that this is the kind of szenario that I am afraid of. I am afraid of being treated like this stud was treating her. And it is definitely not what I would want. What if JC walks out for a moment and the guy starts to act this way? And there is nobody to stop him? what then? It wouldn't help me much if he got thrown out because he didn't take no for an answer...
Please assure me that this is not normal behaviour in a club! Because this post brought a lot of fears to the surface.
I don't remember how I found this board, but what impressed me was the way the people were acting towards each other. I found a lot of respect (most of the time), helpfulness, caring. So I assumed that swingers would fall into this category. And I felt comfortable.
Being new to this lifestyle, not having tried it out, this kind of behaviour from this stud is really scaring me.
Could some of you experienced people please tell me what we should do in order to avoid getting into such a situation.
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