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Old 05-13-2003, 06:29 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Default Re: Re: the bdsm lifestyle

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Originally posted by TymKeepr
This post sounds more like rough sex and dirty talk, that wonderful feeling of "not being in control so what ever wonderfully nasty thing happens to me it's not my fault".
This is exactly what it sounds like to me. In my opinon I think "studly" probably strolls around as the cock of the walk and is very used to getting what he wants, when he wants it and the way he wants it. That sort of arrogance is very unattractive to me, but I can see how someone could get caught up in the attention and even revel in it. I've seen it happen in the 'vanilla' world.
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Though like many who have read it, I'm questioning how "real" is it. Sounds just a little to far-fetched for me to believe.
Speaking from experience, the second couple that we met with would probably be really too far fetched to believe also. In our case we thought we would be totally compatible and the evening turned into a nightmare. (This is a couple that we met at a club and then spent an evening with them at their home about a month later. We did not swing with them first meet.) So it isn't unthinkable to believe that this could have really happened. We would have never believed what we encountered out of the couple we were with. They just didn't seem the type (for lack of better words).

BTW, love your Buffet quote!

Lori
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