 Re: Doubts and More!!!
As iapr so succinctly put it...parents are sexual beings as well.
My curiosity is to why you feel it is ok to think about these things now and find them hot...but it wouldn't be ok to think/do/find hot after having children (and I assume being married)?
The majority of folks in the LS are married (many long term) and have (or have had) children. There are some that are just in a long term relationship (but I think we are in the minority) and/or child-free. Why should having hot sex, possibly including others, be separate from having children? Are you under the impression that once children enter the picture that you and her will no longer have hot sex or fantasies? And last, I just want to say that women are not the only ones who can be indoctrinated by religious teachings or societal pressures to be 'good'...perhaps you feel that once children/marriage enter the picture that the fun times are over?
Focus inward and enjoy your relationship!
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