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Originally Posted by exploringRM  when we try to meet people online thinking they might click outside of sex, we don't click on the sexual side! Only a few couples so far so no where near a valid statistical sampling, but wondering if others have experienced this. Though I don't want to sound shallow, but I'm thinking we should ask ourselves first, can we have sex with these people and then after decide, could we be friends. |
This is the approach that we take. We look first for a sexual chemistry attraction and go after that first. We've learned that if you take too long to get to the sex and friendship develops first ... there's a very high chance the sex will never happen.
Also, if the physical attraction is there and then later we decide there is no chance for more... at least we got to have some fun sex!